If you’ve read one page of this blog in the last six months, you know I am struggling. Losing my brother, has morphed into one of the most challenging events of my life. On a daily basis, I battle regret, pain, disappointment, grief and a thousand other emotions. Complicating my life even more, are my challenges with personal relationships, professional growth and a sense of fulfillment. To put it simply, I am not happy and have not been for a very long time.
Happiness is a state of mind. It comes and goes. I fundamentally believe to reach this state, I must seek it; conversations with friends who have battled depression, anxiety and the frustrations of life have reinforced this idea for me. So where do I look?
Several weeks ago, a blog post from Medium fell out of the sky into my inbox. The author seemed to be struggling just like me. Battling depression, he challenged himself to take a photo of something every day that made him happy. This forced him to seek happiness, recognize it, document it and save it for later. When depression began to sneak back in, he opened his phone and reminded himself happiness was around the bend.
At this point in time, I am willing to try anything. 13 weeks ago, I began the 100 Days of Happiness Challenge. I want to share this experience with you as it continues to make a difference in my life.
I love seeing a community rally together to ensure every girl has the prom of her dreams.
Up early this morning supporting Communities in Schools of Kent.
Seattle International Film Festival begins.
Because I am smart enough, I am good enough and gosh darn it, people like me.
Magazine project complete.
Not a blank white page. More like a world of endless possibilities.
At Boeing, spreading the word about Kent Youth and Family Services.
Look who I found wondering around the Seattle airport.
Just some kids from Oklahoma at the Seattle International Film Festival.
Ready for my close-up.
Nothing like digging through piles of vinyl records with this guy.
Playing tour guide today.
Happy Memorial Day!
I've seen 7 films in 10 days.
Spending my lunch break with Hemingway.
Writing poetry has saved my life on more than one occasion.
Took a long lunch, a walk, finished a book, stopped to smell this beauty, and now back at my desk...
Looks like a beautiful day to spend inside of a theatre watching 6 hours worth of movies.
Happiness is homemade burritos starting in a skillet.
1 sticker for every donor who has contributed since March; 65 in total.
Man, I have a thing for neon.
Found this beauty in our flowerbed.
Got my board on their feet today to talk about meaningful philanthropy.
I really didn't need a holiday, but Happy National Doughnut Day.
Two best friends unite.
For me, this is heaven.
Be still. Be quiet. Be alive.
From International Service to Community Service Chair, serving with these people is a complete joy.
Someone isn't cooperating.
Yay, for adult sippy-cups.
Jordan has arrived.
On point today.
I know, three weekends in a row.
Feeling insignificant isn't always a bad thing.
I have been volunteering in this space for two years now and have learned so much.
Nothing says, "Don't you dare shit here" like Virgin Mary doorbeads blocking the toilet.
My Seattle home.
Better than being in the office.
A beautiful day for a bike ride around Seattle.
Seattle summers on my deck, how I love you.
Make your own pizza bars always win my heart.
I mean it works for Frank Underwood.
Drinks with one of my favorites.
Need to send 150 care packages to the troops? Costco it is.
On most days, I could care less about the number of "likes" I get, but today the love has been overwhelming.
On the left, downtown Seattle. On the right, Alki (home).
Seattle Pride with this one.
A little light reading before bed.
Assembling care packages to send to the troops today in Rotary.
99 donors since Mar. 1.
Because it has been a week since I grilled something.
Called it. My volcano.
America!
Breakfast of champions.
Excited to get back to Oklahoma this week to celebrate these two.
I love photography and I love PhotoShop.
The things I'll do for a cheap flight.
Because it is never too early to think about an April Fools gift.
Reunited with an old friend today.
Frederick cuisine.
Grilling out with my little buddy.
Back in the 405.
The OKC crew.
Last stop before Seattle.
My seat for The Decemberists.
Finally, a man to cook me dinner.
Giant sunflower I found on my bike ride today.
And then man ate ribs and it was good.
Mondays suck less with blueberry fritters.
In Washington, we mail it in.
I'll keep this one.
Just a couple of fundraisers getting together to talk effervescently about our jobs.
Drove up from Seattle to see Jim Adkins from my favorite band in the world (Jimmy Eat World) play in Bellingham.
Foggy hike to Snow Lake.
Home away from home.
Rereading one of my all-time favorites.
Still one of the best decisions of my life.
Spent my lunch break with the cool little dude. He is at kindergarten academy and eating a meal provided by our summer meals program.
Crossed the $80K mark today.
I could literally eat BBQ for every meal.
Officially cable free.
Honey dijon grilled chicken.
149 donors since Mar. 1.
Today seems like a good day to start a new project.
Left my running shoes at the office and had to break out the ol' shell tops.
It is Aug. 6 and I just hit my fundraising goal for the year.
Finishing one of my favorite books on my lunch break.
One of my favorite human beings in the world.
My favorite shirt, because I believe it to be absolutely true.
Got the right shoes on today.
Wilco!!!
UW Pike Chapter Advisor Transition Food.
Water balloon fight today here at Valli Kee.
Friday workflow.
My first trip to the Ballard Locks!
Booze is better in a copper mug.
Happy first day of school Bronchos. Welcome to the family.
Next up, a book given to me by one of my favorites.
My first Seattle Sounders match.
100 days in and one thing is apparent; people matter!
Thanks for entering my world,
-Nathan